Using AI to Write Your Wedding Speech - Prompt Template

Written By hithisischeng .

Here’s a template that can help you write your wedding speech using AI.

How to use:
1. Copy and paste the text below into a document (starts and ends with horizontal lines)
2. Line 1 - Select Bride/ Groom
3. Go to “Tone” section and remove those you don’t want. I suggest just keeping 2
4. Fill in sections 1-7 with as much as you like
5. Paste everything into AI (e.g. Chat GPT), and generate
6. Review, rework the tone/ parts you don’t like, rehearse till you’re comfortable

<Start of template>

Hi ChatGPT, I’m the bride/ groom and I’d like help writing my thank you speech at my wedding.

I want it structured in order of these parts:

Thanking everyone for coming

Thanking my parents, then siblings

(optional) Thanking my siblings, and other relatives

Thanking my partner’s parents, 

(optional) Thanking my partner’s siblings, and other relatives

(optional) Thanking other friends/ colleagues

Thanking my spouse

I’ve written some short answers to some questions below for each part—can you help me turn them into a speech? Ignore the questions or prompts with no answers below them.

Tone:
(choose 1-2 below, delete the rest)

Warm & sincere

Sentimental, Heartfelt & touching

Funny, lighthearted & witty

Romantic 

Thankful, Gracious & appreciative

Elegant and Sophisticated

Language notes: 

Make it sound like you're a bride/ groom and wanting everyone to understand how appreciative you are. 

Don't be too formal or stiff

Dont use too many big words just for the sake of using them. 

Don't be overly formal, verbose, and repetitive.

Please don’t add details that weren’t in my original notes. If something needs to be expanded, only use what I wrote, or ask me for clarification instead of guessing. I prefer authenticity over flourishes.

🎤 1. Thank Everyone for Coming

Did anyone travel far?

Any group you're especially touched to see? Why?

How does it feel to have all your different worlds in one room?

Was there anyone who couldn’t make it that you want to acknowledge?

👨‍👩‍👦 2. Thank Your Own Parents

What’s something they taught you about love or life?


What are you grateful/ thankful for?


Any childhood moment that sticks with you?


What have they done for you growing up? Any lesson, habit, memory, or way they supported the relationship?


👨‍👩‍👦 3. Thank Your Siblings and Other Relatives

What are you grateful/ thankful for?

Any childhood moment that sticks with you?

🫱🏻‍🫲🏼 4. Thank Your Partner's Parents

What are you grateful/ thankful for?

What do you enjoy most when visiting?

A funny or warm moment you shared?

What have you grown to appreciate?

👨‍👩‍👦 5. Thank Your Siblings and Other Relatives

What are you grateful/ thankful for?

Any childhood moment that sticks with you?

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 6. Thank Other Friends & Colleagues (optional)

What to tell ChatGPT:


What are you grateful/ thankful for?


Who are your closest friends, and how did they support you?


Anyone that help with the wedding? What did they do? How was it helpful?


Any inside jokes or unforgettable memories, or fun stories to share/ draw attention to?



💖 7. Thank Your Wife

What to tell ChatGPT:


How did you meet?


When did you know she was “the one”?


What are you grateful/ thankful for?


What’s a moment or habit of hers that touches you?


Any Fun stories to share?


What I really want to say is: 


<End of template>

hithisischeng .